Gender and sexuality issues

[zoe marie]

There has been a lot of b*tching on this topic recently and this makes me quite unhappy as the purpose of this topic wasn't to be nasty about other people and their views but to ask what their views were!!!

 

I know that some people have other views on how people should live and they should be counted just as much as those who don't agree!

When you live life through rose tinted glasses you believe that others should see the same, but people have differenT shades of tinted glasses-it doesn't mean that one shade is better than the other, just that they have a different vision of what life should be!!!

 

 

 

If you don't ask, you don't get

If you don't look, you don't see

If you don't try, you don't succeed

So what do YOU say to Taking Chances???

[zoe marie]

I originally started this topic to get your views on a somewhat controversial issue, since then I have realised that there are many views which haven't been covered, views that I never expected and views that were expected!

The surprise for me personally is that since I started this topic I have realised who I truly am (sort of)! The person I thought I was , was a shy and timid person who would only say the thoughts I thought people wanted to hear. I would always say yes if they wanted yes and no if they wanted no. The difference between then and now? I became the person I am meant to be. I'm Bi-sexual and in love with my female best friend, I'm loved for who I truly am instead of the disguise and I'm happier than I've ever been!

I have been confused my whole life and now I'm not, so if you're reading this and need a friendly ear then here I am!!!

 

If someone loves you,

Never let them go,

For one day you'll regret it,

And you should never know,

The pain that, that may bring,

To you and your heart,

From now until forever,

May you never be apart!

 

Becky you're my shining star on the darkest of nights and all my heart desires!

Edited July 29, 2008 at 08:32 AM by zoe marie

[pat200]

if you are happy, then best of luck to you, and those who can't be happy for you, then their loss because you just don't need them in your life or maybe they just need time.

[CelineRules!]

I Dissagree with some of you guys....I Believe NOBODY is born Gay or Lesbian...that's their lifestyle choice

If I read or hear one more time that being gay i a CHOICE, I swear, you'll hear me scream to wherever you are!

 

To all those people out there who think this ridiculous statement is true, please take this decision:

- From now on I CHOOSE to only fall in love with people with blue eyes and brown hair!

 

Good luck on that one... Tell me how that works out for you...

 

If you could choose who you fall in love with, than life would be so much easier wouldn't it? Then my mother would have never fallen for that a$$hole of a 'father' of mine and she would have had the life she deserved...

 

I fall in love with people and I couldn't care less if they're male or female... I just feel lucky to have someone that cares for me...

[Hilda]

If I read or hear one more time that being gay i a CHOICE, I swear, you'll hear me scream to wherever you are!

 

 

hahaha they do not 'believe' as if its some intangible thing like god that you cant be certain about. Um....people are gay....they are telling you that its not a choice.... Dont be so arrogant to talk about something if your so ill informed about it and that doesnt apply to you. How does that make you qualified??? Its like me saying you chose to be straight even though u know yourself that you cold never love a person of same sex. Hahaha....crazy.

Edited July 29, 2008 at 09:53 AM by Hilda

[Alex_Incognito]

I'm so surprised that Celine fans can be so ignorant----especially those that aren't gay pointing fingers art those that are and telling them why and how they did it.

[KimboCosmo]

Especially being a Celine fan and knowing how Celine feels about gays and that she has spoken out about it, and even about her own son if he is, in fact, gay.

[zoe marie]

if you are happy, then best of luck to you, and those who can't be happy for you, then their loss because you just don't need them in your life or maybe they just need time.

 

I wish I could say that but they are possibly most of my friends and family seeing as they don't know!!! The only people that do are my son of four years, my girlfriend and one of my best friends, so I guess right now I'm scared of the reaction of them all. I wish I could say that I don't care but I do as I would hate to lose them to ignorance!!!

The one saving grace in this situation is that I have a girlfriend who loves me, that I can trust implicitly and I have never been happier!

 

I wish anyone in this same situation the best of luck as I know it's scarey as hell not knowing what others will think especially those that are close to your heart!

[Terre]

Normal? Abnormal? To me there are no such things when it comes to human sexuality. Nobody should be discriminated for who they are.

 

zoe marie: I know how you feel as I'm in the same situation myself.

[pat200]

if you are happy, then best of luck to you, and those who can't be happy for you, then their loss because you just don't need them in your life or maybe they just need time.

 

I wish I could say that but they are possibly most of my friends and family seeing as they don't know!!! The only people that do are my son of four years, my girlfriend and one of my best friends, so I guess right now I'm scared of the reaction of them all. I wish I could say that I don't care but I do as I would hate to lose them to ignorance!!!

The one saving grace in this situation is that I have a girlfriend who loves me, that I can trust implicitly and I have never been happier!

 

I wish anyone in this same situation the best of luck as I know it's scarey as hell not knowing what others will think especially those that are close to your heart!

 

well if they really love you then they will accept you as you are. nothing has changed, you are still you. what you do sexually should not be their concern because your sexuality does not define who you are. they will understand that you have no choice when it comes to sexuality. maybe at the beginning they will be shocked, but slowly they will get used to the idea. and if they don't, they are not worth being around you. you don't need to worry about that, cause life has enough worrie you have to deal with, and you have a child who needs most of your attention. if it comes to the worst, then you have your son and your girlfriend and that should be more than enough to help you through the tough times. you can make new friends later. life is an amazing thing, and you will be surprised by how strong you can be in the face of what scares you. so take care my friend, if u need a friend, then you can count having one in germany

Edited July 31, 2008 at 10:12 PM by pat200

[zoe marie]

Normal? Abnormal? To me there are no such things when it comes to human sexuality. Nobody should be discriminated for who they are.

 

zoe marie: I know how you feel as I'm in the same situation myself.

I wish you the best of luck whatever the outcome!!!

 

if you are happy, then best of luck to you, and those who can't be happy for you, then their loss because you just don't need them in your life or maybe they just need time.

 

I wish I could say that but they are possibly most of my friends and family seeing as they don't know!!! The only people that do are my son of four years, my girlfriend and one of my best friends, so I guess right now I'm scared of the reaction of them all. I wish I could say that I don't care but I do as I would hate to lose them to ignorance!!!

The one saving grace in this situation is that I have a girlfriend who loves me, that I can trust implicitly and I have never been happier!

 

I wish anyone in this same situation the best of luck as I know it's scarey as hell not knowing what others will think especially those that are close to your heart!

 

well if they really love you then they will accept you as you are. nothing has changed, you are still you. what you do sexually should not be their concern because your sexuality does not define who you are. they will understand that you have no choice when it comes to sexuality. maybe at the beginning they will be shocked, but slowly they will get used to the idea. and if they don't, they are not worth being around you. you don't need to worry about that, cause life has enough worrie you have to deal with, and you have a child who needs most of your attention. if it comes to the worst, then you have your son and your girlfriend and that should be more than enough to help you through the tough times. you can make new friends later. life is an amazing thing, and you will be surprised by how strong you can be in the face of what scares you. so take care my friend, if u need a friend, then you can count having one in germany

Thankyou so very much! When I read this message I nearly cried as your words touched me with their thoughtfulness and kindness!!!

 

I have never felt normal and when I realised I had feelings for my best friend of all people I freaked out as I wasn't sure of what they truly were. I thought at first that they were just because I was worried about her or that I had feelings for her as a best friend, but now I see the truth and yes it scares me but by the same token I have found someone who loves me for me, not the face I can put on! My family mean the world to me but if I had to chose between the face I appeared to be and the happy in love person that I am then there is no contest. I will always be me, just now I'm me on the outside too!!!

If there was any way to thankyou all for your support then I would do in a heartbeat as your words have assured me that not everyone will be as cruel and ignorant as others, thankyou!!!

[Terre]

Normal? Abnormal? To me there are no such things when it comes to human sexuality. Nobody should be discriminated for who they are.

 

zoe marie: I know how you feel as I'm in the same situation myself.

I wish you the best of luck whatever the outcome!!!

 

if you are happy, then best of luck to you, and those who can't be happy for you, then their loss because you just don't need them in your life or maybe they just need time.

 

I wish I could say that but they are possibly most of my friends and family seeing as they don't know!!! The only people that do are my son of four years, my girlfriend and one of my best friends, so I guess right now I'm scared of the reaction of them all. I wish I could say that I don't care but I do as I would hate to lose them to ignorance!!!

The one saving grace in this situation is that I have a girlfriend who loves me, that I can trust implicitly and I have never been happier!

 

I wish anyone in this same situation the best of luck as I know it's scarey as hell not knowing what others will think especially those that are close to your heart!

 

well if they really love you then they will accept you as you are. nothing has changed, you are still you. what you do sexually should not be their concern because your sexuality does not define who you are. they will understand that you have no choice when it comes to sexuality. maybe at the beginning they will be shocked, but slowly they will get used to the idea. and if they don't, they are not worth being around you. you don't need to worry about that, cause life has enough worrie you have to deal with, and you have a child who needs most of your attention. if it comes to the worst, then you have your son and your girlfriend and that should be more than enough to help you through the tough times. you can make new friends later. life is an amazing thing, and you will be surprised by how strong you can be in the face of what scares you. so take care my friend, if u need a friend, then you can count having one in germany

Thankyou so very much! When I read this message I nearly cried as your words touched me with their thoughtfulness and kindness!!!

 

I have never felt normal and when I realised I had feelings for my best friend of all people I freaked out as I wasn't sure of what they truly were. I thought at first that they were just because I was worried about her or that I had feelings for her as a best friend, but now I see the truth and yes it scares me but by the same token I have found someone who loves me for me, not the face I can put on! My family mean the world to me but if I had to chose between the face I appeared to be and the happy in love person that I am then there is no contest. I will always be me, just now I'm me on the outside too!!!

If there was any way to thankyou all for your support then I would do in a heartbeat as your words have assured me that not everyone will be as cruel and ignorant as others, thankyou!!!

 

Thanks! I wish you good luck too!

[zoe marie]

Since I last wrote on here, both my sisters, my mum, my dad, one of my aunties, my grandmother and one of my best friends all know that I'm in love with a woman! My mum (bless her) thinks I TURNED because of one of my male ex-patners but is ok with it. My older sister says that if I'm happy then she's happy!. my little sister is struggling but ok (ish). My dad starting laughing at my older sister (as she told him for me thankfully) but I don't know what his real reaction is yet!. My older sister also told my grandmother (sooo not what I wanted!) and apparently she's unhappy but then she is 74years old! My little was crying so much that one of my aunties asked what was wrong so was told that I wasn't straight as previously thought! Apparently she was 'shocked'! One of my best friends is very supportive from the start as she believes that people are who they are no matter what or who that might be! Whereas another best friend was unconvinced for 12 hours or so but is now great about it!

Who says coming out the closet is all doom and gloom??? LOL

 

To you 'Terre' I have this message:

"People might surprise you by being happier than you thought they would be.

No matter who they are, they might hate your choice to tell them or they might not.

It's a gamble, a leap of faith and a risk taker all in one, but if you don't ask you don't get, or in this case, you won't know their opinion until you give them chance to tell you what they think!!!"

I believe that there will be someone out their who won't like who you really are, but that doesn't have to mean it will be someone you care about, it could be anyone! My family mean more to me than anyone, other-than my son and girlfriend, so I know how scarey it is to think that my family may hate me for who I am but they don't. They may not understand why but they don't hate me as I'm sure your family won't hate you!!! Life is about 'TAKING CHANCES'

I wish you best of luck no-matter what you decide to do but I will always be a message away if you need me!!!

[pat200]

Congrats :-)

[angeluk2]

Just a thought from me:

 

I chose to believe in God

I didnt choose to be straight,i just am

[celinedionsfan]

I didnt choose to be straight,i just am

 

Are you sure about that??

 

 

sorry... couldn't resist... especially after reading your "TO DO" list

Edited August 4, 2008 at 06:30 PM by celinedionsfan

[celinedionsfan]

As someone who, at the age of 33, came to the realization and acceptance that I am gay... I can assure you that it is NOT, was NOT and will NEVER BE a choice...

[celinedionsfan]

To zoemarie and any other gay women reading this topic who are not already aware of it --- I started the GAYDIES topic so that gay women could have a place to talk... and you are all more than welcome to join us there...

[angeluk2]

I didnt choose to be straight,i just am

 

Are you sure about that??

 

 

sorry... couldn't resist... especially after reading your "TO DO" list

I was just trying to make a point mom!

[celinedionsfan]

I didnt choose to be straight,i just am

 

Are you sure about that??

 

 

sorry... couldn't resist... especially after reading your "TO DO" list

I was just trying to make a point mom!

 

I know and I absolutely agree with you!

[zoe marie]

I may seem stupid in asking this question but who is the other woman on your signiture 'celinedionsfan' as I really have no idea who she is???

[Terre]

Since I last wrote on here, both my sisters, my mum, my dad, one of my aunties, my grandmother and one of my best friends all know that I'm in love with a woman! My mum (bless her) thinks I TURNED because of one of my male ex-patners but is ok with it. My older sister says that if I'm happy then she's happy!. my little sister is struggling but ok (ish). My dad starting laughing at my older sister (as she told him for me thankfully) but I don't know what his real reaction is yet!. My older sister also told my grandmother (sooo not what I wanted!) and apparently she's unhappy but then she is 74years old! My little was crying so much that one of my aunties asked what was wrong so was told that I wasn't straight as previously thought! Apparently she was 'shocked'! One of my best friends is very supportive from the start as she believes that people are who they are no matter what or who that might be! Whereas another best friend was unconvinced for 12 hours or so but is now great about it!

Who says coming out the closet is all doom and gloom??? LOL

 

To you 'Terre' I have this message:

"People might surprise you by being happier than you thought they would be.

No matter who they are, they might hate your choice to tell them or they might not.

It's a gamble, a leap of faith and a risk taker all in one, but if you don't ask you don't get, or in this case, you won't know their opinion until you give them chance to tell you what they think!!!"

I believe that there will be someone out their who won't like who you really are, but that doesn't have to mean it will be someone you care about, it could be anyone! My family mean more to me than anyone, other-than my son and girlfriend, so I know how scarey it is to think that my family may hate me for who I am but they don't. They may not understand why but they don't hate me as I'm sure your family won't hate you!!! Life is about 'TAKING CHANCES'

I wish you best of luck no-matter what you decide to do but I will always be a message away if you need me!!!

 

Aww... Thank you for your words! I'm pretty sure too my family won't hate me but... I just can't tell them, I'm not ready to do that. You're so brave, congrats!

[celinedionsfan]

I may seem stupid in asking this question but who is the other woman on your signiture 'celinedionsfan' as I really have no idea who she is???

 

Never think you are stupid for asking a question. She is Judge Marilyn Milian of The People's Court

[zoe marie]

Since I last wrote on here, both my sisters, my mum, my dad, one of my aunties, my grandmother and one of my best friends all know that I'm in love with a woman! My mum (bless her) thinks I TURNED because of one of my male ex-patners but is ok with it. My older sister says that if I'm happy then she's happy!. my little sister is struggling but ok (ish). My dad starting laughing at my older sister (as she told him for me thankfully) but I don't know what his real reaction is yet!. My older sister also told my grandmother (sooo not what I wanted!) and apparently she's unhappy but then she is 74years old! My little was crying so much that one of my aunties asked what was wrong so was told that I wasn't straight as previously thought! Apparently she was 'shocked'! One of my best friends is very supportive from the start as she believes that people are who they are no matter what or who that might be! Whereas another best friend was unconvinced for 12 hours or so but is now great about it!

Who says coming out the closet is all doom and gloom??? LOL

 

To you 'Terre' I have this message:

"People might surprise you by being happier than you thought they would be.

No matter who they are, they might hate your choice to tell them or they might not.

It's a gamble, a leap of faith and a risk taker all in one, but if you don't ask you don't get, or in this case, you won't know their opinion until you give them chance to tell you what they think!!!"

I believe that there will be someone out their who won't like who you really are, but that doesn't have to mean it will be someone you care about, it could be anyone! My family mean more to me than anyone, other-than my son and girlfriend, so I know how scarey it is to think that my family may hate me for who I am but they don't. They may not understand why but they don't hate me as I'm sure your family won't hate you!!! Life is about 'TAKING CHANCES'

I wish you best of luck no-matter what you decide to do but I will always be a message away if you need me!!!

 

Aww... Thank you for your words! I'm pretty sure too my family won't hate me but... I just can't tell them, I'm not ready to do that. You're so brave, congrats!

I'm sure they won't when you feel you can tell them until then I hope you remain happy in yourself and your love for another!

 

 

I may seem stupid in asking this question but who is the other woman on your signiture 'celinedionsfan' as I really have no idea who she is???

 

Never think you are stupid for asking a question. She is Judge Marilyn Milian of The People's Court

Never heard of the Judge, but I've just noticed that she has an uncanny resemblance to Gena Davis!

 

My son is now fours years old

My naive little sister is extremely unimpressed with what she sees as my 'choice' to be Bi-sexual 'all of a sudden'. I have tried to tell her that it isn't a 'choice' to be me, that I made now, but a choice to tell her now! But maybe at 15 year old (and a sheltered one at that) shouldn't be told the truth, or that's what my mum thinks!!! Life is aways a gamble and in this case a huge one which in the most-part was a gamble worth taking so far!!! I'm not terrified that my sister will find out from someone else (we live two minutes away from her house and have mutual friends), I can be free to tell all my friends that I am happy with my girlfriend and my son can say anything he wants (as four years old do!) without my fear he will say something about his "two mummies" as he calls us sometimes (even before I realised I loved her)!!!

Edited August 5, 2008 at 07:19 PM by zoe marie

[Terre]

Since I last wrote on here, both my sisters, my mum, my dad, one of my aunties, my grandmother and one of my best friends all know that I'm in love with a woman! My mum (bless her) thinks I TURNED because of one of my male ex-patners but is ok with it. My older sister says that if I'm happy then she's happy!. my little sister is struggling but ok (ish). My dad starting laughing at my older sister (as she told him for me thankfully) but I don't know what his real reaction is yet!. My older sister also told my grandmother (sooo not what I wanted!) and apparently she's unhappy but then she is 74years old! My little was crying so much that one of my aunties asked what was wrong so was told that I wasn't straight as previously thought! Apparently she was 'shocked'! One of my best friends is very supportive from the start as she believes that people are who they are no matter what or who that might be! Whereas another best friend was unconvinced for 12 hours or so but is now great about it!

Who says coming out the closet is all doom and gloom??? LOL

 

To you 'Terre' I have this message:

"People might surprise you by being happier than you thought they would be.

No matter who they are, they might hate your choice to tell them or they might not.

It's a gamble, a leap of faith and a risk taker all in one, but if you don't ask you don't get, or in this case, you won't know their opinion until you give them chance to tell you what they think!!!"

I believe that there will be someone out their who won't like who you really are, but that doesn't have to mean it will be someone you care about, it could be anyone! My family mean more to me than anyone, other-than my son and girlfriend, so I know how scarey it is to think that my family may hate me for who I am but they don't. They may not understand why but they don't hate me as I'm sure your family won't hate you!!! Life is about 'TAKING CHANCES'

I wish you best of luck no-matter what you decide to do but I will always be a message away if you need me!!!

 

Aww... Thank you for your words! I'm pretty sure too my family won't hate me but... I just can't tell them, I'm not ready to do that. You're so brave, congrats!

I'm sure they won't when you feel you can tell them until then I hope you remain happy in yourself and your love for another!

I may seem stupid in asking this question but who is the other woman on your signiture 'celinedionsfan' as I really have no idea who she is???

 

Never think you are stupid for asking a question. She is Judge Marilyn Milian of The People's Court

Never heard of the Judge, but I've just noticed that she has an uncanny resemblance to Gena Davis!

 

My son is now fours years old

My naive little sister is extremely unimpressed with what she sees as my 'choice' to be Bi-sexual 'all of a sudden'. I have tried to tell her that it isn't a 'choice' to be me, that I made now, but a choice to tell her now! But maybe at 15 year old (and a sheltered one at that) shouldn't be told the truth, or that's what my mum thinks!!! Life is aways a gamble and in this case a huge one which in the most-part was a gamble worth taking so far!!! I'm not terrified that my sister will find out from someone else (we live two minutes away from her house and have mutual friends), I can be free to tell all my friends that I am happy with my girlfriend and my son can say anything he wants (as four years old do!) without my fear he will say something about his "two mummies" as he calls us sometimes (even before I realised I loved her)!!!

 

I should be more specific when I say things sometimes... I didn't mean that I have a girlfriend.

 

I'm happy 'cause I'm no longer wondering what's wrong with me but on the other hand... It would be easier to be straight.

[Allysadreams]

I Dissagree with some of you guys....I Believe NOBODY is born Gay or Lesbian...that's their lifestyle choice...and I don't really care what people choose, but in every single book of warship Like: the Bible , Koran ect all say Gays and Lesbians are making sins in the name of god...and I Agree....I'm Straight and I think every man and women are born that why until their brain tells them otherwise....WHICH is a SIN

-Nmj

 

Sorry but i disagree with you, i am 100% straight female but i don't think people choose to be different thats how they are and what makes them different, maybe we are the different ones?!

 

If you are going to talk about the bible then have you also read the part about not judging your neighbour.

 

You know what i believe as long as some one is happy and isn't hurting anyone, what is the problem? I think and i KNOW that most people don't choose to be considered different its the labels other people put on them, i believe most gay people are born gay and most straight people are born straight, its the chemicals etc plus how your brought up can be a factor too like if you are bought up in a liberal household if you're gay you will accept yourself but on the other hand if you're not then it will be harder for you to accept yourself.

 

My brother is gay, i love him to death, i support who he is and i don't label him, he a lovely person with very good morals who will one day want to meet a lovely guy and who knows from there?! He is not a sin, he's a human being with feelings and i don't want to be apart of anything that tells me otherwise.

 

I'm not judging you so please don't think that, you ahve your views and i respect that, i do, you can't blame what you ahve been taught but surely as long as someone is happy nad living life and contributing to a peaceful world then where is the sin?! After all these wars you would think humans would learn one thing to unite together for peace and hope for a better day, thats my power of a dream *celine song at the olympics Atlanta* lol

[Allysadreams]

Especially being a Celine fan and knowing how Celine feels about gays and that she has spoken out about it, and even about her own son if he is, in fact, gay.

 

 

I know it bothers me when people can be cruel and ignorant!

 

What did Celine say about Gay people, my brother is a fan of Celine's too and he'd like to know i am sure.

 

I know it wouldn't be anything bad as she has been on Rosie O'Donnells show and Ellens show........

[Angel, You thrill me]

Especially being a Celine fan and knowing how Celine feels about gays and that she has spoken out about it, and even about her own son if he is, in fact, gay.

 

 

I know it bothers me when people can be cruel and ignorant!

 

What did Celine say about Gay people, my brother is a fan of Celine's too and he'd like to know i am sure.

 

I know it wouldn't be anything bad as she has been on Rosie O'Donnells show and Ellens show........

 

:wub: :wub: :wub:

[Allysadreams]

Thankyou STrk125

 

Jake is so cute! lol

[LVCeline]

This is an age old argument that will never see victory on either side. People will always argue this and no side will ever agree with the other it seems like. You either believe it's okay to be gay or it's not okay to be gay. You either think God doesn't approve or you think God does approve. There is no way to prove either side, so the main thing is EVERYONE needs to practice tolerance for others beliefs. I don't believe either side should preach their opinion as fact. What everyone needs to do is agree to disagree and let everyone live their own lives. That said, here are my OPINIONS:

 

I can't understand how straight people think it's a choice to be gay. I haven't heard a single logical answer to that statement. I understand that as saying basically everyone is bisexual and at a certain point in their life they choose to go one way or another. My mother or father could at any time choose to be gay and they would be perfectly happy and attracted to members of the same gender, they just choose not to. That's completely and utterly ridiculous. You cannot choose who you are attracted to. Everyone knows that when you look at a person you either find them attractive or not. It's not a conscious decision.

 

I also don't understand how people throw out the Bible and preach it as fact, and use it to spread hate and negativity. It's basically used as a tool for fear and control these days. People read this book and tell others how to live their life by it. "The bible says....so this is what you should do or you're going to hell." It's one of biggest crocks I've ever heard in my life. People are following a book that was written god knows how long ago, by god knows who. I have no problem with anyone believing in such a book, but I do not believe it is right for people to press this belief on anyone else. Mainstream religion has gotten so twisted these days, it's strictly used as fear factor. Nobody preaches any of the good things written in it, they only use the negative to control and scare people into thinking what they want you to think. Families turn away their own flesh and blood because "The Bible" says it's wrong to be gay. It's completely disgusting to me. Thousands of gay teenagers are taking their own lives because their families and society do not accept them because of something a damn book says! A FREAKING BOOK. How about people think and form opinions for themselves? Don't go by what something tells you to believe, form your own thoughts, and worry about your own "salvation." Judge someone by their character and the things they do and the way they treat others if you must judge at all. Simply hating someone because of something as trivial as an orientation is just absurd and completely ignorant.

 

I myself am gay, and I couldn't care less if someone else disagrees with that. I simply cannot help the fact that I'm gay and I'm sure as hell not going to sacrifice my happiness because some people think it's "wrong." What I do in my bedroom is nobody's business and has absolutely no effect on anyone else but me. Who I marry has absolutely no effect on anyone but me. People need to worry more about their own lives instead of telling others who they should be with and how they should live their lives.