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I can't believe I just posted that...
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Edwin Newbie

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:lol: That's the song I was expecting to hear when I clicked I Love You on the other video. I think this needs some more exposure to help promote the karaoke section :)
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lmao this was done at 2:30AM. they were drunk (otherwise they would never do any choreography and defaintely not put it on youtube lol) and I was hoarse...

 

hardly anything karaoke section-worthy

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Edwin Newbie

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Would you mind if I used it in a more public settings? You can say no :)
Mrs.Goldman Newbie

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what kind of public setting?
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Edwin Newbie

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I PMed you.

 

Okay, I swear Im going to bed now. Ciao!

riobeard11 Newbie

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Question for the group:

 

One of my best girlfriends has been dating a guy for about a year and we really don't like him all that much...something is just off. He's very controlling and jealous.

 

Anyway, on vacation a few weeks ago he told us (her closest friends) that he's proposing in March. She wasn't expecting it until probably the next year or two. We went back and forth on whether we should warn her or not, and then today he proposed...

 

Is it rude to talk to her about if she's sure she's really ready for this? We've all tried really hard to learn to like him and it's just not happening really!

 

He has also been divorced twice, and engaged a third time (that didn't work out). He's 28.

 

What should we do? :hmm:

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sfbaysinger Newbie

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Actually you are pretty good for real, Edwin. Give yourself a bit of credit.
L'immensite de mon amour pour Celine! L'amour existe encore pour elle! :)
sfbaysinger Newbie

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Adi, why don't you like singing Celine covers? I LOVE IT!!!

Bobby...yikes. Do you think he's going to hurt her? If you think harm could come to it, as her friends, I think you have the right to tell her. You have tried for a year and you're concerned. Marriage is, despite Kim cardashian's laughable attempt, forever. LOL :P sorry Kim fans. :P

Anyway, that's a tuffy, "let your heart decide" LOL and I know you'll do the right thing cause "I understand you're the only one to know whether wrong or right."

Oh and how fun, Edwin, singing IDAN over NYE!!!! The right place to sing it, LV!!!

:)

L'immensite de mon amour pour Celine! L'amour existe encore pour elle! :)
riobeard11 Newbie

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No, I don't think it will lead to him being abusive in that way. I think he just has some things he needs to work on...maybe he's changed.
J-Man Newbie

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Divorced twice and he's only 28?!

 

One year is not enough time in such circumstances. Do you know why his past relationships have ended? That's possibly the strongest argument you have against her doing this too soon. She should tell him that it is too early for her, that she isn't even thinking about marriage yet. She is still enjoying the dating period and would like to stay focused on that. If he is serious about her he will get over it, if he breaks it off because of that then he is probably not committed enough to her for marriage anyway.

I am taking it she has already said yes though.

 

You just need to talk to her, no more than about 2 people together, prefferably one to one, and just alert her to your concerns. Don't make it personal about him (not trusting him etc) just point her to the reasons for the other marriage breakdowns, remind her that she had not intended on an engagement so soon herself, and not to feel pressured into one now, and that you only have her future happiness in mind. Also remind her that a long engagement of at least a year would probably be a good idea. If after this talk she is still adamant, then there's no point in continuing it, just let her see that you are there for her and hope she see's sense eventually.

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-23 C degrees here today, but the weather is so BEAUTIFUL! Not a single cloud in the sky, just sunny, and it makes the snow all sparkly! Really pretty. :)

 

And it annoys me when a few of my friends keep complaining about everything on their FB statuses. Like about the weather. At the moment it's obviously too cold for them, but whether it's raining, snowing, windy, hot.. for certain people it's never good! :rolleyes: Or then they just update that they're just "pissed". Fine...

Sorry, but the constant negativity of some people just annoys me sometimes! :-D

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HELSINKI 9.6.2008 - PARIS 26.11.2013 - PARIS 28.6.2016 - STOCKHOLM 17.6.2017 !

Shamrock_1982 Collaborator

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Question for the group:

 

One of my best girlfriends has been dating a guy for about a year and we really don't like him all that much...something is just off. He's very controlling and jealous.

 

Anyway, on vacation a few weeks ago he told us (her closest friends) that he's proposing in March. She wasn't expecting it until probably the next year or two. We went back and forth on whether we should warn her or not, and then today he proposed...

 

Is it rude to talk to her about if she's sure she's really ready for this? We've all tried really hard to learn to like him and it's just not happening really!

 

He has also been divorced twice, and engaged a third time (that didn't work out). He's 28.

 

What should we do? :hmm:

 

Its only right to look out for your friends :)

But this is one of those touchy situations, as I've had a similar experience but within the family.

 

First off not everyone will like you in life, its just that simple...

Does she seem happy with him, or has he changed the person you knew for the worst? Also if she accepted the proposal its to late ''in my eyes'' to say anything regarding it, you may hurt her feelings and chance ur friendship. Normally in a relationship if someone is a tad controlling or jelous its mainly because they were badly hurt in a previous relationship, and with trust and time that should eventually go. The important thing is her happiness, and if shes happy thats the main thing... as friends though its best to try and be happy for her despite what you think of him, and just always be there for her... who knows give him time and he may change and grow on you... everyone deserves a chance!

 

Well thats my 2 cents :P

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and the transit system is on strike this morning. good thing I walk to work
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Question for the group:

 

One of my best girlfriends has been dating a guy for about a year and we really don't like him all that much...something is just off. He's very controlling and jealous.

 

Anyway, on vacation a few weeks ago he told us (her closest friends) that he's proposing in March. She wasn't expecting it until probably the next year or two. We went back and forth on whether we should warn her or not, and then today he proposed...

 

Is it rude to talk to her about if she's sure she's really ready for this? We've all tried really hard to learn to like him and it's just not happening really!

 

He has also been divorced twice, and engaged a third time (that didn't work out). He's 28.

 

What should we do? :hmm:

 

I think that if she's your friend, you should tell her. She should appreciate it. I do think that you should tell her about this. :)

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Merci Céline pour ces deux soirées inoubliables que j'ai passées à tes côtés. Je ne les oublierais jamais.

J't'adore Céline.

Merci.

<3

dj4celine Newbie

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Bobby, I agree with John on this one. He gave a very balanced and unprejudiced reason. :flowers:
Edwin Newbie

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You know her better than us Bobby. How do you really think she'd react to you if you brought it up? Would she appreciate your opinion or be annoyed that you are meddling? One of my good friends married someone who I cannot stand and I didn't think she made a good match for him but they've been together 3 years and are expecting their first kid. I'm just thankful I never said anything cause that would be a-w-k-w-a-r-d now lol. Still don't like her, but w/e :mdr:
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TV looks good tonight for once... bottle of wine, duvet, and a few candles.... ''yeah man'' :P
Edwin Newbie

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Wine and candles? Why do I get the feeling there will be little tv watching after all :whistling: :innocent:

 

Rose: What's under the sheets?

Dorothy: A cappuccino maker!

:laugh: Gotta love the GGs.

riobeard11 Newbie

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Thanks for your input! I think we will end up asking her if she's ready and how long they plan on being engaged, etc. I know it would be rude to bring up the parts we don't like about him and didn't plan on going about it in that way because if she's happy with him that's not our problem.

 

It's just concerning with his past marriage history (I don't know how they ended...) that he would jump into this so quickly, and that she is okay with it! The thing is, she's the kind of person who would have said yes if he asked her 6 months ago because she doesn't want to make him feel bad. That's why I think we need to ask her if she's really ready for it.

 

Anyway, thanks for the advice! :flowers:

sfbaysinger Newbie

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Edwin, watching them now.

Sophia, I'll show you who's not the woman who's used to be. (grabs Rose) Come on, Blanche. Simple mistake, means nothing.

:D

You do gotta love the GGS!!!

L'immensite de mon amour pour Celine! L'amour existe encore pour elle! :)
Edwin Newbie

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Xtina, I thought you meant you were watching Darren and his GF :mdr: Do you have the DVDs or is is on tv?
Belle Céline Newbie

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oh please please please let there be pictures!! :maniac:

 

Jennifer Nettles will be be making an appearance at New York Fashion week next week. She is set to walk the catwalk for a good cause, The Heart Truth Campaign’s Red dress collection. The cause focuses on female heart health since heart attacks are one of the highest killing diseases in women today. The show it self kicks off fashion week on February 6th, 2012.

“There’s nothing I love more than the romance of a night in the theater.”

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Edwin Newbie

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Facebook goes down for 15 minutes and the whole internet dies?
Belle Céline Newbie

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lol no? I wasn't even aware it was down.

“There’s nothing I love more than the romance of a night in the theater.”

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sfbaysinger Newbie

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It was on TV. Gross, Edwin :P

LOL though.

I went to the consignment shop two streets down and donated some cloths my mom bought me for Xmas. She still doesn't know my sizes and I'm 28. Boo!!!!!

Anyway, they were sooooooooooo nice there :) and knocked my total bill of the things I bought from them, from 19 dollars to about 9. I feel like shouting to every resident of El Cerrito, Ca, USA that they need to go to the Turn-About Consignment shop. The crew didn't care how long I took to try things on and make up my mind. Because of their no-return policy, which makes total sense, I had to be reeeeeeeeeeeally sure I wanted those things, a night-gown and a purse.

Oh and did I forget to mention...most of their proceeds go to a charity that helps children in our community with orthadontic problems when their families can't afford it? :D

I feel like I got the deal of the day and they got nothing from me. They gave more then they let me give them. But they said with VDay coming up that they might be able to sell some of my heart-inspired pottery, so, I'm going to go there and make that donation. they can't outgive me on that one LOL!!!!

:)

L'immensite de mon amour pour Celine! L'amour existe encore pour elle! :)
Belle Céline Newbie

Belle Céline

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Another internet snooping bill H981 and guess what? The man Lamar Smith who created SOPA came up with this one too! It's already passed through the committee as well.

 

http://act.demandprogress.org/letter/snoop...mp;rd=1&t=5

 

http://act.demandprogress.org/letter/snoop...mp;rd=1&t=5

“There’s nothing I love more than the romance of a night in the theater.”

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Edwin Newbie

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One more hour to goooooo. Then tonight, Chippendales! :maniac:
celine-rc Newbie

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I totally failed a science test today... I rarely fail tests but when I do, I do a good job at it! First math session was actually almost fun!

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Merci Céline pour ces deux soirées inoubliables que j'ai passées à tes côtés. Je ne les oublierais jamais.

J't'adore Céline.

Merci.

<3

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