First loves

December 6, 2008 at 04:39 PM

It's rather boring in here, so let's get some discussion going.

Let's talk about your FIRST loves.

How old were you?

Was it really love?

Was it just a crush?

I was around 18 years old when I first fell in love. The song "Lolita (Trop jeune pour aimer)" somehow was the theme of this romance. It was so sweet, but I was much too young at the time. But in these instances you don't think clearly. You always think about that person, and the giggly butterflys take over your brain.

So much of that song came alive for me.

"You tell me I'm too young...I don't give a damn, I love you."

"If you refuse to take the love I give you, I could make you go crazy forever"

"Lolita is not too young for love

Is not too young to give herself

When the desire consumes her

Completely

Never too young to love

Never too young to give herself

But you don't know the fire which lies dormant

inside of me"

Ohhhh the good old days.

Now what are your tales?

December 6, 2008 at 08:09 PM

I have two first loves :fofolle:

The first one was totally not real... it was a guy I knew online and we never met but we were close friends and I found myself developing feelings for him. I knew at the time (I was 16) that I was getting obssesed and all infatuated and I knew very well that nothing is ever gonna come out of this whole story but I let myself feel these feelings because I thought it was healthy to get them out and also, I thought that as a songwrite and a musician, it's going to get me someplace...

my first real love, was about a year ago and ended a few months ago and finally, two weeks ago completely.

It was with my first (and last) boryfriend.

He is an amazing person and I was really inlove with him (still am unfortunately). it's hard for me to hate him because there are alot of circumstances to many of our situations and problems but I know that, not speaking to him anymore is the right thing to do.

I trierd to stay friends with him but I couldn't accept being less than what I wanted to be for him..

December 6, 2008 at 08:43 PM

Well of course I'm too young for the firts love :giggle: .... But I can tell you what happened last months... In September I met a boy who is three years older then me, and I really liked him, and it seeme he felt this way too... :wub: It was great talking to him and laughing, but a in November I found out a very sad thing :down: ....

Though he is only 19 years, he'll become father in may ( I was speachless :cry: ) But now I think that MY HEART WILL GO ON :yes: eheh now I know it was only a crush and not true love...

December 6, 2008 at 09:30 PM

Let's talk about your FIRST loves.

How old were you?
Was it really love?
Was it just a crush?

I was 21 years old when I had my first girlfriend.

It only lasted two months. She tried to "win" me back, but for me it wasn't really love.

I still couldn't admit to myself that I loved guys, but I couldn't find it in my heart to "fool" her any longer.

Later she started to date one of my best friends, so we still see each other.

She's also a friend of my sister. The first time she asked me out, she asked me to go to the movies.

I got to choose. I chose "Beauty and the Beast". It was when I first became obsessed with Celine Dion and her "celine dion" album.

I was 25 when I had my first boyfriend. This time it was really love. We got married eleven years ago.

December 6, 2008 at 10:10 PM

14, not really(''teenage love affair''), and only had crushes for boys after my 17th...

December 7, 2008 at 12:46 AM

Honestly, I haven't REALLY ever loved anyone...still waiting on that special one...

December 7, 2008 at 12:47 AM

If my boyfriend of like two days from second grade counts, then him :lmao:

December 7, 2008 at 09:57 AM

HIHIHI ... Never Been Inlove :wub:

But i have many Crush in the school :wub:

But i control my feelings to fall :rolleyes:

Because i want to finish my study first :clap:

December 7, 2008 at 12:22 PM

I was 25 when I had my first boyfriend. This time it was really love. We got married eleven years ago.

HOW WONDERFUL IS THAT!???

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! :clap:

i hope that one day i might say the same thing...

December 8, 2008 at 04:39 PM

I was 13 when I "fell in love" with a 19 year old friend of an older cousin. At the time I had no worries and thought being with an older guy made me a grown up.

From 17-18 I was in a relationship with a boy my own age which I thought was real love, until the older guy from my past came back to my home-town (now with a wife) and began persuing me again. As you can imagine, this led to a lot of heartbreak for several different people including myself once he decided he was finished "having fun" and moved away again. :mellow:

So after that mad year, I've been put off the idea of love and relationships because of what I did to my boyfriend and also because of the way I was manipulated by my "other man".

Wow, pretty heavy stuff! It's definitely been a rocky start on the road to true love! :blushing1:

December 9, 2008 at 10:26 PM

I was 25 when I had my first boyfriend. This time it was really love. We got married eleven years ago.

HOW WONDERFUL IS THAT!???
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
i hope that one day i might say the same thing...

Thank you for your lovely reaction.

I never really dated. We met at work.

So keep your eyes open. You never know where you'll meet Mr. Right!

December 10, 2008 at 12:00 AM

Have been going out with my first love for 6 years since I was 18 years old. My first and only boyfriend............and its only getting better . I think i am very lucky in that regard....

December 10, 2008 at 02:41 PM

lol would rather not talk about first loves cause obviously they are not loves anymore lol great while it lasts but not good when ya first love ends

December 11, 2008 at 03:51 PM

I don't think I've ever had any first love yet.

I had my first bf when I was 18 (I think it was a curse from promising my mum to not having any bf until I start university, and it came true lol)

I used to have a bit of a feeling towards him, which I now think is only a crush. But at first I don't have any experience before so I'm kinda excited.

He's typically nice. But later I found his blog, which he keep saying about his ex-gf who has ditched him because (according to my bf) she discover that she is a lesbian. I don't know whether he's lying or not, but he seems extremely attached to her and he said that he still hope that she can love him again. This was the first thing which pains me so much.

Then one day, I asked him to go to the ice skating rink on the upcoming break school and he said ok. But then a few days before that day he called me and said that he had promise another GIRL to go with him to the library. I didn't contact him until the rest of the break.

When the next term started, he came back to me again. But then I decided to test his heart, by getting away from him. Instead of asking me why, he started going with that girl who asked him to the library. I ended up furious and heartbroken so I decided to break up with him.

He doesn't matter to me now anymore, though he made my first experience very trouble that I, honestly, almost became a bi lol. But my friend said that I'm only way too hurt from the incident.

Now I always sing Celine's "That's the Way It Is" to my heart. And it's a very good reminder!

:angel:

December 11, 2008 at 05:10 PM

"First love" for me it's happen so long time ago.

and I don't want to think about that anymore.

because it's in the "pass".

I live with today.I wish. ^^

But I also said It's taught alot of thing, "First love".

If don't have "First love" How I know the feeling of love.

If don't have "First love" How I know about how to do something well to my sweet heart.

If don't have "First love" How I learn to live with some pain if love not sweet anymore.

If don't have "First love" How I know someone that I totaly love with all of my heart she doesn't feel that way about me.

well, now it's just a passed. And now I know alot of thing from that.

I live with today. I wish.

December 13, 2008 at 10:36 AM

well i was like around 20 or 21 i thought he was the one... but no..................(cause he's my first.. )

oh well..

December 27, 2008 at 09:27 PM

I was 13 when I "fell in love" with a 19 year old friend of an older cousin. At the time I had no worries and thought being with an older guy made me a grown up.

From 17-18 I was in a relationship with a boy my own age which I thought was real love, until the older guy from my past came back to my home-town (now with a wife) and began persuing me again. As you can imagine, this led to a lot of heartbreak for several different people including myself once he decided he was finished "having fun" and moved away again.

So after that mad year, I've been put off the idea of love and relationships because of what I did to my boyfriend and also because of the way I was manipulated by my "other man".

Wow, pretty heavy stuff! It's definitely been a rocky start on the road to true love!

Seriously u dated a 19 years old guy when u were ONLY 13 years old??

December 27, 2008 at 09:44 PM

I've never even been in love :xmas_wink: (hey i'm 13!)

and I never had a crush :ermm:

December 27, 2008 at 09:49 PM

I've never even been in love (hey i'm 13!)

and I never had a crush

hehe... I had a crush when I was 13 :xmas_laugh:

Anyway... Lots of crushes on moi :giggle: EVEN tho it's hard to say goodbye...

February 12, 2009 at 09:39 PM

I was 13 when I "fell in love" with a 19 year old friend of an older cousin. At the time I had no worries and thought being with an older guy made me a grown up.

From 17-18 I was in a relationship with a boy my own age which I thought was real love, until the older guy from my past came back to my home-town (now with a wife) and began persuing me again. As you can imagine, this led to a lot of heartbreak for several different people including myself once he decided he was finished "having fun" and moved away again.

So after that mad year, I've been put off the idea of love and relationships because of what I did to my boyfriend and also because of the way I was manipulated by my "other man".

Wow, pretty heavy stuff! It's definitely been a rocky start on the road to true love!

Seriously u dated a 19 years old guy when u were ONLY 13 years old??

Yeah, very silly I know. :glare:

February 12, 2009 at 10:12 PM

so, there's a late response! :lmao:

February 12, 2009 at 10:15 PM

so, there's a late response!

Shows just how bored I am, surfing through such old topics! :laugh:

February 13, 2009 at 06:44 AM

I don't know if it was real love in my case, but at least a very serious crush. I was about 10 to 11 years old when I "fell in love" with a guy in my class. I was really in love with him, I even wrote him a love letter (which I then regretted very much as I had to heard about this even several years later). When I was 15, I was still in love with the same guy (he knew it) and I once asked, by text message, if I'd ever had any chances with him, and I got a "yes and no" answer from him.. I still wonder what the heck does that mean, yes and no?! :blink:

Anyway, my crush on him lasted even through high school, but I finally started to forget the guy when high school ended, so when I was about 18.. And nothing had ever happened between us, I wonder how on earth could the crush last so long. Well, then, a year ago, I got a text message from this guy, who now asked if I'd go out with him sometime, cause he was "interested" in me.. Even though it had been several years, I had the butterflies in my stomach again. I agreed to go out with him, but since we didn't settle a date, and since we are both very shy, it didn't work out and we ended up not going out.. I was a little disappointed, though I had thought I didn't have feelings left for him anymore. I don't know, I think I won't ever be able to get completely over him, and if he was to ask me out again, I think I would still agree. Besides him I haven't really liked anyone that way (except for a crush on a woman a couple of years ago, but whom I got over rather soon).

February 13, 2009 at 07:04 AM

5 years ols. I know it's very yougn to fall in love but I just fel that to a girl who really amuses me.

February 13, 2009 at 09:05 AM

I was 25 when I had my first boyfriend. This time it was really love. We got married eleven years ago.

HOW WONDERFUL IS THAT!???
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
i hope that one day i might say the same thing...

Thank you for your lovely reaction.
I never really dated. We met at work.
So keep your eyes open. You never know where you'll meet Mr. Right!

Congrats as well, and what you said is very, very true!!!! :yes:

Edited February 13, 2009 at 09:08 AM by LuisMa

February 13, 2009 at 11:14 AM

I was 13 when I "fell in love" with a 19 year old friend of an older cousin. At the time I had no worries and thought being with an older guy made me a grown up.

From 17-18 I was in a relationship with a boy my own age which I thought was real love, until the older guy from my past came back to my home-town (now with a wife) and began persuing me again. As you can imagine, this led to a lot of heartbreak for several different people including myself once he decided he was finished "having fun" and moved away again.

So after that mad year, I've been put off the idea of love and relationships because of what I did to my boyfriend and also because of the way I was manipulated by my "other man".

Wow, pretty heavy stuff! It's definitely been a rocky start on the road to true love!

Seriously u dated a 19 years old guy when u were ONLY 13 years old??

Yeah, very silly I know.

I never said it was stupid... -_-

February 15, 2009 at 11:57 PM

Okay so I think I have a first love or real crush or something now with a great great friend of mine. I have talked to him about relationships and such but it seems like he isn't interested it one. It is completely frustrating because we basically act like a couple. He is always at my house, when he needs to talk I am the first person he calls. When he is sick I make in soup and drive over to his house.... I think of him all the time and I really do love him. He is my best friend and that is why I think we are so perfect for each other. Everyone at school thinks that I am dating him but I am not. I have to say that we aren't together but in a way we so are. I think this is his problem not mine, it seems like he doesn't want to admit that he really cares so that nothing between us will change, but nothing will change. Just maybe a little intimacy, nothing else. I just don't know. He is a year older than me and the cutest thing. I just wish that he would come around.

February 18, 2009 at 07:37 PM

Okay so I think I have a first love or real crush or something now with a great great friend of mine. I have talked to him about relationships and such but it seems like he isn't interested it one. It is completely frustrating because we basically act like a couple. He is always at my house, when he needs to talk I am the first person he calls. When he is sick I make in soup and drive over to his house.... I think of him all the time and I really do love him. He is my best friend and that is why I think we are so perfect for each other. Everyone at school thinks that I am dating him but I am not. I have to say that we aren't together but in a way we so are. I think this is his problem not mine, it seems like he doesn't want to admit that he really cares so that nothing between us will change, but nothing will change. Just maybe a little intimacy, nothing else. I just don't know. He is a year older than me and the cutest thing. I just wish that he would come around.

I also know a boy/girl friendship. Everybody thinks they are a couple. But he is gay. She is in love with him, but knows she'll never really have his love. Still, they did buy a house together and so they will be living together soon. He chooses this option, because he doesn't want his family to find out he is gay and he doesn't want to live alone for the rest of his life. She chooses for this option, because it's the best she'll ever get from him...

February 18, 2009 at 07:54 PM

The first love must been decades away... At least so it seems

I think I was about 16 back then. Actually it didn't last to long, I do like my freedom a lot and have some problems connecting with people... I love my freedom way to much... However we still stayed friends even after losing eachother out of sight for some years. I think I'm a bit shy and a loner :icon_mrgreen:

February 18, 2009 at 10:12 PM

these months i live my first love... :wub:

He doesn't know it.And im 18,5 Edited February 18, 2009 at 10:13 PM by Snowhite

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