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[scorp82]

celinerific, on Jun 22 2008, 12:31 AM, said:

Wow, Mr. Psychologist LOL.
I'm aware of all that. In my head, it's only going as far as friendship... A close-knit friendship. Nothing more than that. Like I said... I'm not going to push things further than a friendship like I have with my current close friends. I'm going to let it flow the way it wants... And right now I'm happy. Very much so. Though of course, I remain very careful. I'm sure of what I want and know that I'm going along the right path. I'm getting insights and advice from people here... and people I know. I have support every step of the way. I think I'm well-prepared for the journey ahead.

But thank you for your concern.

No problem!

I know this is hard... Like I said, I have developed crushes and strong feelings on people who simply don't feel the same way or because of whatever reason, LOL.  There is also a feeling of helplessness because one may want to have the chance to get to know the person and possibly more, but there is simply no chance...

Edited by scorp82, 22 June 2008 - 11:39 AM.

[celinerific]

Yeah. But Fara is really approachable and wants to be friends with everyone, which is another reason why I love her so much.

[VintageCeline]

Erikaaaaaaaa,

I think you should just play it cool, I know its hard, but try not to think so much into it.
I do think though, that if she isn't gay, or even bi - It might freak her out a little if you two become good friends, then suddenly act differently around her.

Maybe, once you two have known each other a while, you should be completly honest with her and tell her how you feel - you never know what could happen.

Just be true to yourself and everything will be good in the end!

xx

Edited by VintageCeline, 22 June 2008 - 03:57 PM.

[celinerific]

Interestingly, and forunate enough, I have this vibe that people get from me that I'm this cute thing that everyone wants to hug and talk to lol. So I'm not TOO worried about freaking her out. I have my ways around people.

[Angel, You thrill me]

i get that vibe just from reading your comments,  

[celinerific]

Ohhh goodie! You see? E tells no lies.

[celinerific]

I'm so excited though! I get to see her on Friday! Somebody help me come up with a plan on how to get her number...

[KimboCosmo]

celinerific, on Jun 21 2008, 11:21 PM, said:

It would help if you were online, Kimba.

Well I'm on nowwwww  

[KimboCosmo]

celinerific, on Jun 22 2008, 08:56 PM, said:

I'm so excited though! I get to see her on Friday! Somebody help me come up with a plan on how to get her number...

Just flat out ask her.  Just say "Hey can I get your number, lets hang out sometime"  It's no big deal!  You can mention a movie or trip to the mall or dinner, lunch...trip to Disney World....ANYTHING!  Ok, maybe not DW, but all the other...  

[celinerific]

Ahaha. Okay, Kimba!
I'm scared sh!tless! LOL

Edited by celinerific, 22 June 2008 - 10:00 PM.

[KimboCosmo]

celinerific, on Jun 22 2008, 11:59 PM, said:

Ahaha. Okay, Kimba!
I'm scared sh!tless! LOL

Here....

I give you my pot to poo in    

[celinerific]

LMAO! Thanks, Kimba.
I so excited, nervous, and scared all at the same time!

[KimboCosmo]

celinerific, on Jun 23 2008, 12:21 AM, said:

LMAO! Thanks, Kimba.
I so excited, nervous, and scared all at the same time!

Ahhh, young love  

[celinerific]

LOL. That's right.
I can't wait though.

[Krys]

use that emergency thing i told you the other day

E!: "umm Fara, can i have your number in case of emergencies?"
Fara: "what emergencies?"
E!: "oh like um the restaurant burning down..."

[Angel, You thrill me]

celinerific, on Jun 22 2008, 07:56 PM, said:

I'm so excited though! I get to see her on Friday! Somebody help me come up with a plan on how to get her number...

tell her that you lost your cell phone (you have one right?) somewhere in the building, ask her if she can call your phone so that you can find it by hearing the ring tone(your going to have to give her your number, obviously so that she can call the "lost" phone), then once you find the phone the caller ID should say her phone number right there. that should work right, or if you dont want to be all sneaky just ask her for it.

[celinerific]

Likely, I'll just ask her for it so that she knows she gave me her number.
But that was a good idea nonetheless.

[celinerific]

Oooooo. And I can't wait until this Friday and Saturday! Friday, just because I get to see her (work with her). And Saturday because the Associates Meeting, perhaps since for the first hour that everyone gets there, we all talk and eat random things... So during that time I hope to get a nice picture WITH her so that I can put it in the double-picture frame on my night table along with the Celine picture.

[incognito]

celinerific, on Jun 23 2008, 12:07 PM, said:

Oooooo. And I can't wait until this Friday and Saturday! Friday, just because I get to see her (work with her). And Saturday because the Associates Meeting, perhaps since for the first hour that everyone gets there, we all talk and eat random things... So during that time I hope to get a nice picture WITH her so that I can put it in the double-picture frame on my night table along with the Celine picture.

Make sure to get pics with other people too so she doesn't thinking "Why just me?"

[celinerific]

incognito, on Jun 23 2008, 01:30 PM, said:

celinerific, on Jun 23 2008, 12:07 PM, said:

Oooooo. And I can't wait until this Friday and Saturday! Friday, just because I get to see her (work with her). And Saturday because the Associates Meeting, perhaps since for the first hour that everyone gets there, we all talk and eat random things... So during that time I hope to get a nice picture WITH her so that I can put it in the double-picture frame on my night table along with the Celine picture.

Make sure to get pics with other people too so she doesn't thinking "Why just me?"

Oh, because she promised me a picture lol. But I will get pictures with other people too!

[ce-line]

I was standing in the exact same situation three years ago. I was madly in love and so confused because she was a girl and 17 years older than me. I was only fifteen and I had never been in love before so I really didn't know what to do...    

I wish I would have had all these good advises back then. Two years ago our ways parted and I had the most difficult time of my life letting her go and knowing that she wouldn't be a part of my life anymore. I was crying often those days, but I could feel that my heart what starting to mend. Then one year later I met her again and it was all coming back to me.    

Now I haven't seen her for a year. Sometimes I dream of her, but I feel much better today. But one thing is certain. I still love her and will always do, but the flame has turned into a glow. The other day my sister told me she had seen her and that she was pregnant. Just to know that she's well satisfies me!    

Even though it didn't work out for me I'll pray it does for you Erika!    

(I'm actually quite impressed by myself, 'cause I've never told anyone untill now!)  

Edited by ce-line, 23 June 2008 - 02:02 PM.

[KimboCosmo]

I've had a very similar experience as well...but E already knows it..  

[KimboCosmo]

celinerific, on Jun 23 2008, 01:07 PM, said:

Oooooo. And I can't wait until this Friday and Saturday! Friday, just because I get to see her (work with her). And Saturday because the Associates Meeting, perhaps since for the first hour that everyone gets there, we all talk and eat random things... So during that time I hope to get a nice picture WITH her so that I can put it in the double-picture frame on my night table along with the Celine picture.

Framed?  WOW...now that is what I call living life in the fast lane  

[SensationalCeline]

For her number you could just tell her that your reprogramming everyones number into your phone and ask her for hers casually!    You sound really hyped up about her!

[celinerific]

ce-line, on Jun 23 2008, 03:59 PM, said:

Even though it didn't work out for me I'll pray it does for you Erika!    

(I'm actually quite impressed by myself, 'cause I've never told anyone untill now!)  

Awwwwwe. Thank you so much!
And I'm happy for you that your emotions are coming around, and glad that you've decided to share it here.

KimboCosmo, on Jun 23 2008, 08:05 PM, said:

Framed?  WOW...now that is what I call living life in the fast lane  

Well, I need SOMETHING to put in the second frame. The two frames are attached to one another, so I can't just have one with a picture and one be blank for so long, you know??

SensationalCeline, on Jun 23 2008, 09:56 PM, said:

For her number you could just tell her that your reprogramming everyones number into your phone and ask her for hers casually!    You sound really hyped up about her!

I am! She's so amazing.
And thank you for the tip!

But actually... I've been thinking. I should bring a magazine with a movie review of a new movie I want to watch (Get Smart hehehe) and then be like, "Oh man, I saw the trailer for this movie and I want to see it so bad, but everyone I know is either too busy or they've gone out of town... So it sucks to be me... Oohh, why don't we catch a flick together? I mean, if you're not busy or anything. " And then she would either say yes or no... preferrably yes... and then I'll be like "Great! This'll be fun! Perhaps you can give me your number so I can find you if I get lost? "

Edited by celinerific, 23 June 2008 - 08:27 PM.

[KimboCosmo]

See?  You've got it ALL figured out  

[CelineAndRene]

[celinerific]

Omgsh... I can just imagine walking around in the mall with her.
And then maybe since she lives near downtown and I don't... (I live like 30mins away from downtown), we could like go back to her place afterwards and then I can "call" my folks to come and pick me up, but then say that they said it's too far and then being the sweetie that she is, she'll be like, "You can stay the night if you'd like." *drools*

Gosh. My fantasies. Let's just see if I live them out.

Edited by celinerific, 24 June 2008 - 12:37 AM.

[ce-line]

celinerific, on Jun 24 2008, 04:24 AM, said:

ce-line, on Jun 23 2008, 03:59 PM, said:

Even though it didn't work out for me I'll pray it does for you Erika!    

(I'm actually quite impressed by myself, 'cause I've never told anyone untill now!)  

Awwwwwe. Thank you so much!
And I'm happy for you that your emotions are coming around, and glad that you've decided to share it here.

This is the only place where I feel comfortable enough to tell it.    Everyone here is very supportive!    

[Krys]

KimboCosmo, on Jun 24 2008, 08:03 AM, said:

I've had a very similar experience as well...but E already knows it..  

and you didnt tell Kryssie about it?